How It Works/Participant Information

Participant families come to the BCS warehouse distribution facility at 4064 US-1 North, Monmouth Junction, NJ 08852 to shop weekly and pick up food provisions, basic needs products and other essential items that have been determined surplus and is generously donated by local grocers, manufacturers, wholesalers, retailers, farms, dairies, bakeries and restaurants.  With the money participants save on these crucial staples, BCS families are able to pursue goals that move them away from the bankruptcies, evictions, foreclosures that threaten them and on to financial stability. Participant families have the freedom to shop weekly, choose provisions and make decisions based on their own individual family’s needs.  They are not just given an emergency box once per month. or two bags of non-perishable items.  BCS has high quality foods and a wide range of fresh, healthy perishable provisions.

BentleyFamily2014  A Bentley Participant Family

The BCS Model of Self-Help

“The Dignity of the Exchange” – People in need by and large would prefer to accept help on the condition that they in return give back in some form.  For many families in need, struggling pay check to paycheck, the stigma associated with needing help, the stigma of lining up for food and an “emergency box” is profound. It is these feelings that make many families choose not to avail to social services.  The financial difficulties of any given family may be due to a wide range of factors, many of them beyond their control.  Helping them to identify factors that they do have control of, and enhancing those to overcome the other factors, is a service few agencies provide.  Bentley Community Services is one that will.

BCS believes that true charity is given in a way that allows the recipient to participate in improving his or her circumstances.  Each family enrolled at BCS provides a few hours of service on a rotation basis at the BCS warehouse.  Their work stocking shelves, sorting and checking foods, processing bakery, flowers, plants and other provisions makes it possible for BCS to keep costs to a minimum.

BENTLEY COMMUNITY SERVICES GUIDELINES AND REMINDERS

A family in need may contact us and also be referred to the BCS program by a current or past participant, companies, businesses, community leaders, other agencies, houses of worship and residents of communities. The referring person is vouching for the character and validity of the family’s situation.

SIGN A GOAL STATEMENT

Each potential clientele family fills out and completes an application where they list goals.  A representative of each family completes a Participation Update Form once a year to specify goals accomplished.

COMMIT TO A SHOPPING DAY

Participants choose a shopping day and confirm coming on that day. For the maximum benefit of this program, families come and shop weekly to choose from an ever changing, rather large amount of fresh foods and non-perishable products.  Hours of shopping are usually on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, 2:00 with last shoppers at 6:30pm.  Please check and read weekly Sunday evening group emails.

PAY MONTHLY SERVICE FEE 

Each family pays a nominal monthly service fee of $50.00 per month.  Service fees are due by the 15th of each month and will be late if not received on or before the last day of the month.  This fee pays not for product, but a small portion of the overhead costs as we lease an entire large private property set back off of Route ! for the privacy of our clientele.  We have a fully functional warehouse distribution facility. Payment can be made by check or cash when you come to shop or you may mail it to Bentley Community Services, Inc.  PO Box 1093, Belle Mead, NJ 08502.

WRITE THANK YOU NOTES

A grateful heart is a critical part of our program. You convey your appreciation to our truly generous providers by writing several thank you notes a month.  They are always thrilled to hear from you about how they affect your lives! They truly feel blessed and are so touched by your thank you notes, cards and letters of gratitude and your personal stories.

LEAVING THE PROGRAM?

While we are sad to see you go, we look forward to families being able to leave our program because they have been blessed and goals are met.  If you no longer need this program, please inform us by calling, writing or by email.  Let us know when and why you are leaving.  When we have this written information we will remove you in good standing, eligible to return.

DISTRIBUTION LIMITS   Special Note: The items in the BCS warehouse are for participant families only.  Please take what your family can use, not neighbors, extended family, etc. This includes everything.  (Keep in mind that other families can be referred to our program should they be in need.) If there is an over abundance of something, please ask if you would like to receive extra!  The important thing here is to ask. We know how much we have of something so please check with us and ask!

VOLUNTEER HOURS   Bentley Community Services is a sustainable program like our mentor organization, Birch Community Services.  Your giving back to the organization fosters a sense of responsibility and accountability as we help and serve one another.  This is a mandatory part of our program and business model.  You may sign up on the family volunteer schedule in the warehouse as a volunteer to help in the food pantry on Saturdays at 10:00AM, Tuesdays at 10:00AM, Wednesdays at 10:00AM, as a volunteer at our food drives, as a volunteer at one of our generous provider farms when help is needed and at other volunteer opportunities that will arise.  We are a caring and compassionate community where we share and offer help and assistance to one another.

REFERRALS   The backbone of the Bentley program are referring new families into this program.  Please fill out and submit the referral form when referring a family.  Applications are reviewed on an individual case by case basis.  Not all families applying to Bentley are accepted.

Accountability – All BCS families state financial goals to work toward while participating in the program and all are required to attend a financial workshop that assists in learning how to manage their finances and control spending.  We will provide a financial seminar to participants at no cost.

Adult Education Program – All BCS families have access to free workshops and courses that will be offered on scheduled dates throughout the year. We also will refer our participating families to other organizations and resources in our communities that may help them, as well. Workshops will be facilitated by professionals giving of their talents and gifts to make a difference, offering their knowledge and expertise in their fields on subjects that have been requested by BCS participants themselves to help facilitate their return to financial self-sufficiency and family stability. They will include workshops on financial literacy/money management, work, life and time managements, preparing wholesome and nutritious meals on a budget; exercise/staying fit, self-defense, home repair, stress management and many other types of interesting and fun classes.

Community Gardens – Learning how to grow – gardens teach families to save money by “growing their own” plus fresh produce is contributed to our own program.

                  

 

 

7 thoughts on “How It Works/Participant Information

  1. Dear Ms Bentley: This is to confirm our phone conversation regarding your wonderful program for the needy. It is extremely disheartening to find oneself in such a difficult position especially when you have a young child looking to you for the things other kids have. My problems began when I had cancer several years ago now it’s in remission but it weakened my system and I developed asthma and sinus and respiratory problems.
    I am looking forward to becoming an active participant in your program.
    God Bless you
    Diana

    • Dear Linda,

      Thank you for your inquiry. We have an application that you will need to fill out. Please contact us at 908-227-0684 so we can give you information on the Bentley program and answer any questions you may have. We look forward to speaking with you.

      Thank you,

      Dorothy Stearns
      Executive Director

  2. Bentley is a wonderful program that really and truly helps the middle class citizens who are working hard, but are still struggling to make ends meet. My family has become a participant of this program a few months ago though the recommendation of a neighbor and friend. The program is a Godsend. Our monthly food bills have decreased dramatically (and this bill is always the largest portion of our credit card debt each month). So, with the help of Bentley, we are now able to put great meals on the table for our family of 7, while continuing to pay down our debts to our credit card accounts (without continuing to add to that debt with astronomical grocery bills). We can’t thank Dorothy and her team enough for really helping out people like us. I cannot wait until the day when we can make those final payments and get out from under this debt that has been weighing on us so heavily.
    Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!!

  3. Dear BCS, I live in Monroe Township and receives the Sentinel Newspaper monthly. As I was reading the April month news, I came across the BCS news explaining how they have been assisting working families who are in financial crisis to regain self-sufficiency by providing a full range of grocery provisions and more each week, offsetting grocery bills, I said, this is it Lord. This is it. This is my season to regain financial freedom. My goal is to become current with each bill, do some home improvements such as furnish my living room and family area etc.
    The amount of money I spend on food monthly can be saved towards these very things. I believe strongly that one hand washes another. With all that said, I applied for the program with hopes to be approved. I believe BCS can help me offset my grocery bills. I am also looking forward to serving BCS in all the ways I possibly can as well.
    In advance, I would like to thank the BCS for not only helping other families but also adding me and my family to the communities of families they serve. Thank you in advance for giving us hope that we can continue to grow as a family. It is incredibly how my spirits was lifted when I saw this program. Again, thank you from the bottom of me and my family’s hearts as we welcome you to our family as you welcome us to yours.

    And last but not least, thanks to Ms.Dorothy Stearns, Executive Director of BCS who responded to my phone call early this week, very pleasant, professional, and thorough in explaining the program who gave me hope and confidence just because she responded to my phone calls, text, and emails this week!☺. KUDOS to you Ms. Stearns☺
    Nichola

  4. Bentley Community Services has been a tremendous help for me and my wife, as we struggle to make ends meet. We ran into extremely difficult financial times and have been struggling for a couple of years. We were referred about another family that was in a similar situation.

    This program is like no other that I have ever heard of. They provide us with excellent fresh, frozen, dry and dairy products that allow us to eat wholesome healthy meals. In addition, there are even fresh flowers and plants to help brighten up our house, as we continue to struggle with these depressingly hard times.

    This program would not be a success without the amazing efforts of Dorothy Stearns, Brant, and the others that work and/or volunteer there. In addition, the extremely generous donations of food and other items from local supplies is truly amazing. From Princeton University, Costco, Starbucks, McCaffery’s, Trader Joe’s, ShopRite and so many others.

    Thank you all and God Bless!!

  5. Bentley has been amazing to me and my family. I’m able to put more money aside or pay down some bills thanks to this program. Dorothy and Brant go above and beyond each week for the families and care so much about all of us!

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